I am a university student from Western Canada. Sex work allows me the freedom to attend classes + pay rent with a flexible schedule. Though the industry is nothing like I thought it would be, I’ve learned how to adapt in order to be successful. It’s not glamorous, but it gives me more control over my life.
Reclaiming my time
Time plays an important role in sex work. Timed sessions, scheduling, and rescheduling. My time as a sex worker is rarely respected and appointment times are rarely honoured. Part of why I do sex work is for the flexibility, so it’s a double-edged sword.
Though we technically may have “access” to these things, getting them is more difficult.
No one makes me feel objectified like foot fetishists do. I’ve never felt like I was disrespected/seen as a “whore” the way I do when I’m with foot fetish clients.